Father and brother remember John Cain as a loving father and respected coach
GRAND RAPIDS, Michigan – The family of John Cain, the security guard who was kill at work Tuesday night, will always be remembered as a passionate football father with a calming temperament and a deep appreciation for the family.
“There aren’t enough words to describe it,” said his younger brother, Michael Cain. “There’s nothing he wouldn’t do. You can’t stop him from doing it. He made his decision; He is going to do it.
Cain was an avid University of Michigan fan and always wore number 52 growing up, for his grandfather. He was also a beloved soccer coach for the Grand Rapids Thunder, the local semi-pro team, and his players had a lot of respect for him.
He was also a loving father to his only daughter.
“Even though he liked football, he liked to be safe; he always took time for his daughter. His daughter was his pride and joy, ”said Cain’s father John Cain Sr.“ Sitting on the floor playing Barbie dolls with his daughter, reading her books, combing her hair. A lot of fathers don’t do that.
But Tuesday night, while evicting a resident of the Grand Rapids Inn over a simple noise complaint, Cain was shot for no apparent reason. This left a huge hole in the Cain family.
“We’ll never get over it. It’s going to be with us for the rest of our lives, ”said Cain Sr.“ I can’t even sleep at night without thinking, ‘What could we have done differently?
As for the man police say pulled the trigger, Jacob Grygorzyk, 21, FOX 17 learns more about his serious mental health issues from newly obtained court documents. According to a psychiatric assessment in April 2020, Grygorzyk suffered from depression, assault, excessive self-blame and a belief that his suicide was “justifiable” in his mind. A psychiatrist viewed him in another court document as “at risk of inadvertent injury” and noted that he had attempted suicide several times in the past.
None of this is heartwarming for the Cain family, who say they can’t sleep at night since the murder.
“I would lay down my life for my boys and all my children, but knowing how it happened, I wish I could have been there to help and prevent this from happening,” said Cain Sr. “Because the only one thing I want to do is protect my family and that’s what my son was basically doing; he liked to protect people.
“If it wasn’t for my son, it would’ve been someone else,” Cain Sr. continued, “and another family would be doing the same thing we’re doing right now.”
“He was the best father ever. What you dreamed of, what you wanted, it was, ”said Michael Cain. “He was just this guy all around. There are no words you can say; it was that guy.
The family invites people to a vigil on Monday, November 8 at Houseman Field in Grand Rapids. The vigil begins at 5:30 p.m., and they hope for massive support.
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